Jonathan Sibley's Coaching & Psychotherapy Blog
Submitted by Jonathan Sibley on Thu, 09/03/2015 - 13:17
Being able to swim in a swimming pool might not mean that one can swim safely in the ocean during a hurricane. Skiing easily on an intermediate slope might not mean that one can ski easily (or safely) on an icy, advanced slope. Similarly, being able to have an easy conversation about what is going well might not mean that one can effectively or safely have a difficult conversation about what is going poorly or concerns about future plans.
Submitted by Jonathan Sibley on Wed, 09/02/2015 - 13:38
So often, I hear a client report a conversation (or, at times, I witness the conversation) and what comes out sounds something like "How could you do something like that?" (please click on the links here and below to hear examples of what I'm describing)
Submitted by Jonathan Sibley on Sun, 03/08/2015 - 18:33
I read a lot of business books and articles and one of the best books I've read in quite a while is "Conversational Capacity" by Craig Weber. It explains clearly what goes wrong in many conversations and what to do about it.
Submitted by Jonathan Sibley on Tue, 09/03/2013 - 12:06
Recently, an article about the ethics of integrating coaching and psychotherapy I co-authored with Debra Jinks appeared in the e-journal of the Association of Integrative Coach-Therapist Professionals. If you are interested in issues related to integrating coaching and therapy / counseling, I suggest you join the AICTP as they are doing ground-breaking work in this area. You can find out more about the organization at the AICTP website.
You can download the article below. Please let me know what you think.
Submitted by Jonathan Sibley on Fri, 01/18/2013 - 12:53
At this time of year, many of us find ourselves choosing a New Year's Resolution that we've tried before, or see items on our performance appraisal under "needs to improve" that have also appeared on previous performance appraisals. Why is it so hard to make and maintain progress towards these goals? In many cases, it is because of something that Bob Kegan and Lisa Lahey call our "immunity to change."
Submitted by Jonathan Sibley on Wed, 12/19/2012 - 16:51
What is your track record with New Year’s resolutions? If you are like most people, it has been difficult to make lasting progress with most resolutions.
What if 2013 were different? What if you could take steps to maximize the chances that you will be successful this time? Now is a good time to be thinking about your resolutions for 2013, so let’s start by thinking about why each resolution is important to you.